Tousle

[Dianne]

To [normalize] an individual and/or behavior that was previously judged as reprehensible. It is a (typically humorous) rehabilitation/[humanization] of a persons image. If tousling is effective, it reveals that any previous condemnation was just [grandstanding].

[Dianne]

Make (something, especially a person

[Zipporah Schumaker]

Tousle is a word to describe someone who is extremely [angry] and has [a God] [complex]

[exinilu]

Make (a persons hair) untidy.