Aggressor

[Sarah]

The person who first attacks or makes an aggression; he whobegins hostility or a quarrel; an assailant.The insolence of the aggressor is usually proportioned to thetameness of the sufferer. Ames.

[Raeanne Dimick]

A word used by radical feminists and “all [men are trash]” advocates, mainly on Twitter, to describe pretty much any men who approach women, but in a more [forceful] way, as if they’re [predators]. it is overused to the point however that it’s used pretty much in place to describe any men who approach women in general.

[Marquetta]

A person or country that attacks another first.