Femme

[Sarah]

Someone who identifies as being feminine or embodies a lot of traditionally feminine characteristics. It's a common misconception that all femmes are passive or submissive, though.

[Sarah]

n.) A gender identity in which someone (female, male or other) has an awareness of cultural standards of femininity and actively embodies a feminine appearance, role, or archetype. It is usually--but not always--associated with a gay or queer sexual identity/sexuality. It is usually more accentuated and intentional than a straight female gender identity or gender presentation and often challenges standards of femininity through exaggeration, parody or transgression of gender norms.
n.) A person (male, female or other) who identifies and/or presents a femme gender identity.
v.) To actively embody a femme identity or gender presentation.
adj.) intentionally, cleverly feminine. Feminine in a non-traditional way--or referring to something/one male (or non-female) that/whom is related to or embodies a conscious femininity.

[Sarah]

an overtly feminine dressing/acting lesbian. as opposed to a butch woman. sometimes used to describe a gay man.

[Sarah]

a girly lesbian.
lesbian stereotype - butch and femme

[Sarah]

A rendition of the term [feminine]. Loosely defined to mean an attractive young [female]. Sounds cute, as they are.

[Sarah]

a very feminine lesbian who wears make up, thongs, baby tees, mini skirts, fishnet thigh highs, tight jeans, etc. A femme is submissive and will most likely have a stud or butch girlfriend.

[Sarah]

-A Lesbian who is going out with a Stud.
The Stud is the girl as a boy and the Femme is the girl in the relationship

[Sarah]

As well as a traditionally femminine lesbian, femme can mean a man who is acting unmasculine or who is being a pussy. Kind of like ladyboy or girlie man. (see Airheads)

[Sarah]

(N.) In a lesbian relationship, the femme has the more passive mentality (in most cases).

A femme typically dresses more feminine, and enjoys the normal girly activities (ie. shopping, hanging out with girlfriends, cuddling).

A femme is stereotypically used to describe a feminine lesbian, also called a pillow princess.

[Raeanne Dimick]

n. A passive lesbian. From the French, femme which means woman or female.

[Britney]

(of a gay woman) behaving in a traditionally female way: