Invitational entrapment

[Kit]

A social [booby trap], usually set on purpose by a host intent on making sure youre available for their lame or otherwise undesirable event; most often set in person, in the flow of an otherwise harmless conversation. One should be on the [lookout] for this trap, and have a few handy excuses on hand to preempt or avoid making oneself unintentionally available. Trap is most effective on the honest, the [sympathetic], and otherwise nice folks who cant just say F**K off!