Emotional blackmail

[Merna]

When the people in your life use fear, [obligation], and guilt to manipulate you. It is a very powerful form of manipulation in which the person directly or indirectly threatens to [punish] you if you dont [compile] with how they want you to behave.
Some examples of things Emotional Blackmailers say are: If you really loved me... After all Ive done for you... How can you be so selfish...

[Vania]

A form of [blackmail] that usually doesnt affect you directly, however makes you feel guilty if you do not do what the [blackmailer] wants.

Emotional blackmail often happens when someone refuses to be the [blackmailers] boyfriend/girlfriend.

[Michiko]

the act of using a persons feelings of kindness, sympathy, or duty in order to persuade them to do something or feel something: