Bilateral eureka

[Agnes]

(This is the complete definition from my [Ph.D]. [dissertation] in 2003.)
This is the Holy Grail of what, it seems, many daters are looking for. Its important that some energy/feeling/connection or chemistry
be present to develop [rapport] with a stranger. Habitual daters who are expecting to be swept off their feet with the next date may be missing this [Eureka] feeling by having unrealistic expectations. Many people seem to know in the first 15 minutes or so of a first meeting whether or not there is a future to the relationship, but it is hard to get to know a person that quickly. Its difficult for one person to be enchanted with the other person, and substantially more difficult for two strangers to both feel [eureka] when they meet the next stranger.