Debugging

[Greta]

When someone you are talking to is critiquing elements (you provide) of the conversation:

with their friend who is listening at the same time.
or
in their head as a [mental note] which results in a period of silence and [delayed response].

Note: The critiquing must occur during the conversation and not after, as that is termed as [logging] instead. Critiquing before is remote judging.

[Vania]

The process of identifying and removing errors from computer hardware or software.

[Dave Paprocki]

to remove bugs (= mistakes) from a computer program: