Ensnare the carebear

[Magaret]

To Ensnare the [Carebear] is to trap and ensnare those whom you know have a thing for you or are in like with you. They keep them on the hook for their own selfish reasons, usually for financial, emotional or self-esteem related fulfillment.
The key fact here is that the feelings of the Carebear are not reciprocated by the one Ensnaring the Carebear - they dont like the Carebear but are just leading them on. One who Ensnares the [Carebears] is a Carebear Ensnarer, oft confused with the much similar [Jay Amatya], well they are pretty much the same.