Kibitzing

[Cami]

To look on and offer unwanted, usually meddlesome advice to others.
However the common meaning of [kibitzing] is a person who is being extremely lazy and generally not doing what they should be. kibitzing can sometimes be determined by the way someone is sitting/laying. If they are being more visually lazy in their stature than usual. they can be labelled a kibitzer or as kibitzing.
People who [go to bed early] at parties or in social spaces can be referred to as kibitzers if they are only going home to be lazy and do nothing.
can sometimes be shortened to bitzing
if you are a homosexual and are kibitzing you can be referred to as a Kibender the amalgamation of the word [Kibitz] and bender